Congratulations Paula!!

I wish you well on the birth of Lilly.  One thing to remember: make sure you spend some time with your hubby.. with two young kids, oftentimes the spouse gets neglected.. as best you can, have date nights (even if this means having a late dinner at home AFTER the kids are in bed), love notes in a lunch or briefcase, and reminders of the wonderful guy you're with.  It really does help, especially when the inevitable happens: Both kids clamoring for attention from one parent.